One hard but essential lesson life has taught me…
If you want to be happy & be at peace, you have to stop struggling all the time & sometimes accept few things.
Work hard, give it your best shot, and if even then its not going your way, let it go. We cannot control everything. We just cannot. There are things that are beyond our comprehension and control. Destiny has its role to play in our lives.
The 3 most important things that decide and impact the very course of our life are our birth time, the circumstances in which we are born and our death timing. But the irony is, we cannot control any of these factors, can we?
Its like taking part in a race (i.e. our life), in where we have absolutely no idea about the starting point of the race (our birth), nor we know anything about the track in which we would be running (the circumstances and surroundings we were born in), & neither we know anything about the finishing point of the race (our death). Our only choice is to run and give it our best shot. That’s it.
There are also many unforeseen events occurring in our life that take place in our lives randomly. These are the events what we call “accidents”. Many a times these “random events” also tend to turn our lives completely upside down. They just happen to us, without any prior notification or indication. And we need to face the consequences of it, irrespective of whether we like or not. Unfortunately that choice is not given to us.
I am very much aware of the fact that most of us would be very disturbed and reluctant to accept this thought process, as we may feel like losing control over our own life and its occurring. But the denial is only going to make our life harder and complex.
Its a bitter truth we need to understand. The sooner we accept this, the happier we will be!
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